Today I strive to address the value of others...
"You must never conduct yourself as if your value has changed.."
And this is where stigma, misconception, & judgement come in.
Stigma- a perception of quality based on an idea of a circumstance associated with a person or thing.
Misconception- an incorrect opinion or point of view based on ones inaccurate awareness and or comprehension.
Judgement-the ability to use reasonable discernment based on evidence to come to an informed decision or idea.
As people we all have different upbringings, experiences and life happenings that shape us into the individuals that we become.
Sometimes when others life experiences or the way in which we live out our lives varies than our own this is when judgement occurs.
We know judgement involves the reasonable ability to come to informed decision. Everything in life in my opinion is not always so black and white or crystal clear. However what is very clear is AWARENESS.
Awareness can help breakdown judgement, misconception and stigmas.
This is what awareness does it allows you to recognize something for what it is.
Sounds simple enough right? But let's think a little more. It's like having a conscious compass guiding you through life interactions.
So here are some questions that should pop in your mind before stigmatizing, misconceptionalizing or judging others.
What is the purpose?
What is the benefit?
Does it help?
Does it harm?
Is it right?
Is it true?
In addition where in my life am I or others stigmatizing, misconceptionalizing or judging me or am I doing this to others? Use it has a mirror of self reflection.
The relative quality and I do mean relative is reflective in our relationships.
Because everyone's story is not our own to internalize but we can learn from the relationship.
Our relationships simply mean all interactions with all people. We are relating to world around us everyday. Please know that each person you come in contact with especially those that are considered close to you have an affect on you and you on them.
"In nature some plants rebloom without ever being replanted. Often the soil needs to be turned over and refortified.
However if that's not done nothing is harvested. It's ok, it was meant to only grow for that season. Appreciate the experience."
"We are all valuable to ourselves and to those that find us valuable. Our value is immeasurable!"
As always from my ❤️ to your ❤️....
Stay Righteous, Stay Fly, Stay True
From the depths of my mind,
Zee
The Convoluted Spirit
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